I'm Back

I know it's been something like 2 months since I last wrote here. We're back in the states, getting settled, trying to unpack boxes, waiting anxiously for my van to finally arrive so we can go pick it up, and the kids and I are not stuck at home and we can get more involved in our homeschool group and I can get back to PWOC.

Okay so I'm here tonight, because I just need to vent a little. I do NOT understand why people ask for advice, get it in a loving and supportive way and then says  "don't make me feel guilty if this doesn't work out", when nothing of the sort has happened. I'm sorry, but if a person is feeling guilty, maybe it's their God given conscience, telling you to try harder, do better, and quit making excuses.
This kind of behavior just frustrates me beyond belief. I am holding back though, and venting here instead of yelling at the person who's annoying me with this behavior. I'd love to know how others deal with this sort of behavior. I want to be Christ like when addressing these situation, but I will tell you now, it's not my first reaction. For now, I'm just sitting on my hands and seeking the Lord's wisdom.